Have you ever approached someone and before even opening your mouth: They walked away. (Or dissed you in some form of fashion)
Maybe you’ve made them laugh and they’re enjoying your company, but when you finally muster the courage to acknowledge your interest in them–it didn’t go too well.
Ever wondered what happened? I have one-word for you.
SWAGGER.
You may not know this but you were being judged long before coming up to them.
Swagger. What is it? It’s everywhere these days: songs, shows and even politicians have it. (Bill Clinton being my favorite)
It’s the way you speak, walk, and act. Basically, the way you carry yourself and the things you do that represent who you are. Other than my Fun Vibe and Conversing Skills, another thing I am known for is my “Advanced Swagger.”
Everyone has swagger. However, most SUCK at it.
Examples of Different Swagger Types:
Good Swagger

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Bad Swagger

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After years of researching different types of genres: Conservative, Liberal, Punk, Prep, Hip Hop RnB, Republican, tall, large, Skinny, Skater and much much more . . . I finally created Swagger101. After months of teaching this program, I’ve customized many different types of swaggers for all types of people.
Whether you don’t like or want to improve your current Swagger, I create one that will fit you. My course is broken up into several sections:
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Facial Expressions
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The Swagger Walk
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Tonality
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How to convey Sexy in your Swagger
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Using what you learned to Create your own Swagger-
After much request I am finally giving in. I’ve decided for today’s post, I’m going to give you guys a free-bee from my Swagger Series by covering the Topics “Facial Expressions” and partially tackle ”The Swagger Walk.“
I am going to start off with a popular reality show on MTV called Made. ( MTV’s Made: A show where MTV helps people who want to make a difference by hiring a professional to train them in a field they dream about. For Example: Modeling, Dancing, Skating )
I was watching MTV’s show Made, and the title of the episode was called: “I want to be a Super Model.” At one point, the “MADE model” had to show several different facial expressions for the camera. The photographer would yell, ” Give me Frustrated ! Orgasmic ! Give me FIRE– from the Depths of Hell ! ”
She was asked to pose at-least a dozen different facial expressions, but sadly, the poor girl could only muster up one expression–the same expression, all twelve “different” times. Which brings me to my FIRST topic from my Swagger Series:
FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
There are many people I know who don’t realize the importance of Facial Expressions–most, can’t even give a decent smile.
During my teenage years, I remember posing for many family portaits . . . lol.
. ..Let’s just say, I wasn’t going to win America’s next top model.
Evidence A:

( lol. Yea I look total dweeb. I sported the chilly bowl/Hair split in the middle for the LONGEST, over time it sort of evolved into what you see here–a faded haircut split in the middle. )
Pay attention to my smile, is that even a smile or did I just have an orgasm. Point being, fortunately, I took notice of my flaw and started a crusade on fixing my endeavors.
I woke up EVERY MORNING– eye burgers still intact, hair still in knots, and teeth still blue from cool-aide earlier that morning.
I figured, if I could look good despite my morning flaws–I’d be ready for anything, anytime, anywhere. Here’s how I did it:
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Step 1: I posed in the mirror till I found the “right” smile.
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Step 2: HOLD the smile, turn around and look at my sister so she could take my picture.
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Step 3: Repeat. Did it to where I didn’t need the mirror as a crutch.
After many days, hours, and minutes later . . . I finally created what was at least, in my eyes, a recognizable smile.
And years later..
. .. . My struggles finally paid off !
To this day, I have many poses. Observe:
Exhibit A: The Original
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Exhibit B:Variation
The Variation is a spin-off from the original . . . Ok maybe it’s the same pose, I just wanted to show the douche in the background . . . ha ha ( and Yes, those are mustard stains on his arm. Let’s hope he doesn’t get crazy ! We don’t want him to tear the place apart )
Uses: The Original is my most basic pose, it’s used in almost every picture and has served me well over the years . . .
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Exhibit C: The One Eyed Wink

Uses: The One Eyed Wink is used when wanting to make good a impressions. It’s one of my favorite poses, it’s so RockStar. ha ha
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Exhibit D: The infamous TAUNT

Many people have asked, ” What does the taunt look like? Here you finally have it. This facial expression was created with the help of my Falcon brother Troy during our escapades in Manila.
Uses: Besides looking psychotic when picking up women, the Taunt is done on the Dance Floor. It’s used to get girls engaged in a “dance battle.”
Many people have also asked, “How is the Taunt done?” I will tell you:
- Step 1: Engage Eye contact.
- Step 2: Step in, Do the Taunt.
- Step 3: Take a couple steps back, and she will engage – the dance battle has begun.
Girls who I battle with normally stand a chance . . . That is, till my homies and I bust out our Secret Weapon- BEHOLD (video below). The Falcon Power Thrust : Yes. That is me in the Orange/Red JumpSuit, and Yes. The Camera men are my homies :
I have many other poses, but you get the point. Having an Arsenal of facial expressions is key when seducing and attracting people into your life. People don’t understand how I am able to get make-outs without having to say a word.
The secret is: non-verbals. More specifically, Facial Expressions.
Once mastering facial expressions, I continued my journey to the far depths of Eastern Asia where I learned:
The Swagger Walk.
Like Facial Expressions, there are many types of Swagger Walks:
Example A:

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Example B:

Example C:
Notice how I used celebrities as examples: Brad Pitt, Dave Navarro and Tiger Woods. That’s because they all have something in common: even before opening their mouths to speak– just by the way they’re walking, you can already tell . ..
. . ..they-are-all, Very Confident.
Different in character, but confident in their own unique way, because of their own unique Swagger Walk.
To achieve your own Swagger Walk, you will need the following:
- A great understanding of who you are and what you are about.
- Good posture.
- Social Awareness.
- The “it” factor. (This is the icing on the cake, it’s what separates the “Real Thing” from the Wannabes. It can only be obtained after you’ve mastered the following above. )
And this concludes today’s post. I know I cut you off, as you might have figured there’s much more on The Swagger Walk, but I worked hours on this post and I am tired, and your getting this for free– so don’t fuss. I may or might not cover more on my Swagger Series . . . Depends on the requests.
P.S. You might ask, How is it possible to kiss someone without having to say a word. Behold. The power of Facial Expressions: A clip of Celeb Robbie Williams showing us how to be Interviewed. I want you to pay attention to his eyes, it’s all in the eyes . . . also the result of what I teach, except. My clients actually get the kiss. lol
Enjoy
*Edit* I officially have 4 people who have sent me their oldschool profile pics, for me to have the “oldschool hairstyle* competition I’ll need 6 more people to send me their pictures. Winner get’s a free hour Phone Coaching with me.
Hope all is well for Everyone,
Timmyswagger
“Anytime. Anywhere.“
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Filed under: Entertainment, Self Help, Swagger | Tagged: alpha, date, dating, eye contact, Facial expression, model, nonverbal, posing, social awareness, Swagger, walk


haha! i lol’d when i saw the pic of your chili bowl/hair cut in the middle, had the same exact hairdo but worse facial expression when i was a kid. Anyways, your posts are seriously helping me out though(especially the new years one), and they are fun to read with the pics/vids you put up. I look forward to more of your posts Timmy.
Hey What’s up Matt. So you actually looked more retarded than I did? :Lol, Let’s see the pic ! maybe if I get enough old-school haircuts pics we’ll have a competition. Winner Gets Free Phone coaching.
You have no idea how glad I am to have you say my posts are helping you out. That’s why I spend hours on making my posts extra entertaining while at the same time helpful.
I hope to make more of a difference now that I finally have an engine where I can speak my voice.
I look forward to hearing more from you
All the best
This is the best post so far Tim! In my opinion, anyway. Being a guy that has one… maybe two facial expression, I found the facial expression part to be most helpful. I’ve seen the taunt before, but I had felt like the chick would think I was about to cut her up into little pieces and put her in a garbage bag if I did that. I’m all up for trying new things… so I’ll give it a shot and see how it works out.
oh btw… I’m down for the retarded haircut pic competition. All through middle school I had the old-man-conservative-combover haircut. To this day, my hair still wants to fall over to the side.
I love reading your posts and hope to see more!
Lol, Falcon Power thrust… right after the Fatality!
These post are MONEY… It seems as though I am a follower now.
~Jeff~
Hey David How are ya? Thank you, yea I hear ya . . . years ago, people couldn’t tell if I was crying or trying to smile (yes, that bad). With the help of people who were facially expressive and work, I was finally able to show emotions through my face. Not wanting other people going through the same fate, I made this post. I am glad you were able to get something out of it.
lol. The swagger walk series is just as helpful AND important as my facial expressions . . . I just couldn’t find the strength to go in depth with it.
The Taunt, Really? You’ve seen it in person? From who? I recommend not trying it out, lol. The Taunt is very advanced, it’s something you can’t develop on your own. Because EVERYONE has their own ” Taunt Pose.”
It’s something that can only be learned with the help of me, Live in person.
Anyway, About the hair competition. I’ve decided . . . If I get 10 people who submit 10 different pictures I will have the competition. I may or may not
display the pictures on my blog, obviously depending on you guys.
However, I would love to post pics of you guys on my blog ! It’s fun when we can all look back and laugh at ourselves. I already have two people who emailed me their pictures. So . . .
I’ll keep you posted on the competition.
In the mean time, feel free to email me your old-school haircuts.
Tim@charismaarts.com
Awesome post
Although “The Taunt” really scared me! I actually went to try it in the mirror and then scared myself in the process.
Just watched the Robbie Williams video. I wonder if he was drunk :/, I didn’t find that sexy at all. He was moving his head like a snake and the reporter was obviously backing off and not wanting anything to do with it.
(Post more about the swagger walk!!
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ha ha you are hilarious Liza. I can totally picture you trying to do it and running away in fear seconds later
Dude! I appreciate the time and effort you are putting into this blog. It is really helping me out, I especially like the part on smiles. Whenever I am in front a camera, I’m always thinking… “uh, how should I smile?” or “am I smiling okay?” then it turns into “jeez I must look like an idiot”. I guess if I practice beforehand then I can be more in the moment.
*heads off to the mirror*
PS. The sample pics/videos = $$$! Keep it up!
Liza: I guess you just have to be person it’s being done to. I can tell she was totally digging it, and everyone around her thought so. After he broke the tension the reporter said quote ” Wow that was hot.” *with a smile . . .
Yea she was obviously backing off . . . but at the same time, obviously loving it.
And Yes, maybe the next post will go into depth on The SwaggerWalk
Mr T: ” how should I smile?” or “am I smiling okay?” then it turns into “jeez I must look like an idiot”. – HAHA that’s a line I could definitely see from a hit sitcom. Thanks for comment Mr.T, I am glad you found some golden nuggets in my articles.
I am always taking requests for topics you may have sticking points on. (this goes for anyone)
All the best,
Timmy
You’re writing is awesome Tim. I had a good laugh yet nodding my head and agreeing with everything you said…
I’m excited about coming back to dallas
Hella funny… Good article man. You need to write more so I have something read while I’m at work and got nothing to do.
That Robbie Williams video was amazing. During the first try notice how little she backs away – she doesn’t want to back away. Only at 2:26, when he tries to close the last gap you can see panic take over and she jumps back. But even then she stays much closer than would be considered professional for a reporter.
But when he goes in for the second try he’s simply mesmerizing. From 3:28 on, wow. She wants him.
Hey Tim!
Thanks for posting the article. Your info on facial expressions really helped me out a lot. The edited pic I sent you of me attempting to smile was me just a few months ago… I had no idea I was that bad until that picture was sent to me … I wish I could go back in time and retake that pic …
Anyways, I’ve been trying to work on using non-verbal communication to create tension and communicate desire. Your article really helped to expand my understanding of non-verbal communication. The thing that Robbie Williams did to that reporter is actually what I wanted to try the next time I’m out there. I’m looking forward to any further articles on swagger, if you decide to write them.
I loved the Falcon Power Thrust too!!! Collecting cheesy dance moves is actually one of my hobbies. I’ll definately give that dance a shot!
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I loved reading this article Tim, it’s such a great post regarding non-verbals!
Thanks for posting I loved the advice on it, so I’m gonna practice my facial expressions and swagger walk and see how it works out for me.
And by the way, great work on your blog I love reading it, I’m looking forwards to your new posts.
Jude
Hey Jude, thanks! By the way–You got mail.